Good grief.

39


I hope by the next time someone starts this same thread (they appear about every 2 months like clockwork), it will be 40.....

 

damn. man aint no tellin!

 

stopped counting

 

Im super proud i can say that..... buttttt my husband wants me to sleep with another man the thought turns him on

 

that is alot of husbands fantasy or dream. Don't worry, he's not a freak. lol I take it you have no desire to do that.

 

Umm i know hes not a freak. lol

its not nessicarly that i dont want to fuck another man... its just ... im not sure what it is... one confidence is really low right now... but i dunno lol... i know i sound idiotic...

 

how many do you need?

just the one im engaged to.
She was a bit of a prude in the begining but it turns out i struck gold, in both sex and affection, so no real need for anyone else.

 

Hmm does he have more the "hot wife" fantasy or the "cuckold" fantasy?
And it doesn't sound idiotic regarding your confidence or your resistance. It's a big step moving from fantasy to reality in those regards, and even though you two have thought about it a lot and maybe even role played it out things can still go sideways when acting out for real. People have emotions and can't always be logical

Though it does sound hot, and if you two move forward those guys are going to be very, very lucky.

 

The plan is for me to find someone i deam worthy to have sex with me. us have sex then tell him... (so if he hates it... he doesnt have the image of me being fucked by another man burned into his brain.... if he likes it like he thinks... he said he wants to watch..... then posdiably join..

I think its a "hot" wife thing... he doesnt want to be made fun of while another guy fucks me..... im just not so sure... mainly a confidence issue.

 

3

 

take it in smaller steps then to test the water. Maybe he'd like to see you flirt with a man from a distance at a bar or something. You could progress as you see fit, sit close, put your hand on his thigh and just see how it feels. Have a signal for your husband to "rescue" you if you start to feel uncomfortable. I think there are plenty of scenario's you could play out that might build confidence and your husband would enjoy watching without having to jump into bed with a stranger.

 

73 women including my wife

 

I lost count some time ago, But somewhere between 30 and 50

 

Do you ever talk about it when your having sex with him? Thats a good way to test the waters. Sometimes thats enough. Act it out while your having sex then see how you both feel after you've cum. Many times the post coitus after glow will speak volumes as to how you'd feel after the real thing.

 

That was for Mrstennbabe

 

One

 

kind of hard when you have a three month old. plus neither of us are into the bar scene. Im sure it will happen eventually. I personally want a fwb situation. i dont want to be anyones one night stand

Seriously? who talks during sex? (other than. omg that feels good ) but we have role played... lots of things

 

well it wouldn't have to be a bar, could be a grocery store for that matter but you get the idea. Yeah a three month old puts a damper on things for sure but don't let that keep you from exploring. Would your husband be ok with a fwb or does he just want this to be a one time deal? I know it would be different for me.

 

Hes 100% ok with fwb

 

COULD YOU DO THIS WITHOUT SHAME ?.

i have been playing with this question in my mind for may years.

now, i am asking all of you here, could you do this WITHOUT GUILT ?.

how many of you, could fuck a childhood's friend mom,

( whether your friend is still living, dead, or being too close to the family,

or have not seen him/them years ).

in your childhood's FRIENDS BED ?.

( meaning, his old bedroom as a child ).

i always found this to be soo cool to do. although, i haven't done it.

but, if the opportunity persisted, i know i could go through without guilt.

who else here can ?.